Should you pay for your Thai girl?

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Paying for a Thai girl is often a topic of discussion or worse: of bragging amongst guys. Some go: I don't need to pay, others justify what they pay for their regular girl.

Here's the thing, there's nothing wrong with paying for a girl in Thailand other than in your own judgement. Some guys pay a lot, others pay less. Some claim not to pay at all, which is very well possible, good for you. But in the end we often pay a price of some sort being with a Thai girl. If you don't pay at all, perhaps you're sacrificing precious time on chatting and drinking coffees with girls you're actually not that interested in.

If you're over 50 and you're with a girl in her twenties, fine, you're paying for her tuition, some presents and other benefits, big deal. If you're younger and somehow attractive to Thai girls, perhaps you don't pay at all because they are looking for 'real love'. The point is, there is nothing wrong with paying but being bird-shit stingly won't get you very far anywhere in Asia.
There was this guy who bought some fruits for his girlfriend and then said 'now you can pay for dinner tonight'. Not really the best ambassador of farang generosity.
Some local Thai guys pay a slice of their meagre monthly income to their girl, believe it not, she may take 3,000 baht out of a budget of 8,000!


You can pay for a girl as a way to take care of her, to show your affection, or just because you want something in return. You can also pay because you don't want to waste your time or you want to keep things simple: no relationship, no strings attached, no hurt.

At what moment you pay for sex or out of affection or to take care of her is a sliding scale: these things gradually blend over into each other in the Thai context and who cares if you're both happy with it.

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You don't pay a girl after you had sex with her, unless she's a prostitute, a sideline girl or a gik you agreed some benefits with beforehand. If you offer money to a normal girl after the deed, it's a complete insult. Don't believe what some ignorant newcomers in Thailand are saying, they are degrading every girl to a prostitute.


Paying for a Thai girl doesn't have to be sleezy or wrong, quite the contrary it can be the most honest and honorable thing to do, if you just want to have sex with Thai girls and don't want to hurt anybody's feelings. Chatting with girls for hours on dating sites can be quite tedious and if you need to lie or pretend to attract girls who are looking for their Dream Prince but you're not, then paying some Thai girl for sex is the cleanest thing to do and will be much better for your karma in the end!

If you're already in a relationship but somehow you still feel the need to mess around with other girls, paying for them can be the best thing to do to keep your relationship pure and going without getting emotionally involved with another girl. You even might find yourself in a situation where you're paying more for giks than you're spending on your own girlfriend, because in your true relationship it's not about money and sex, and in your affairs it is.

Another reason some guys prefer to pay a Thai girl, is when they want to have a threesome or play out some kind of sexual phantasy, because it's usually a bit harder to find a third girl to volutarily join in such exercise, but of course the experience won't be the same when a girl joins for money instead of for desire.

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  • how much should you pay for a Thai girl?
  • how to pay best?
  • downsides, risks and dangers of paying


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