Having multiple relationships at the same time in Thailand


Last edited: August 29, 2017 at 14:47:28

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If you cannot find one Thai girl who satisfies your needs, you can become a Serial Dater and have many girls in a row or on rotation, but you can also decide to be more serious with a few girls in some sort of commitment. This might seem strange from a Western perspective, but it’s much less strange in some Asian countries.

A very common and biologically sound reason why men are having affairs is because of the Coolidge effect: 'male mammals tend to get sexually less interested in sexual activity with the same female after a while, but have renewed sexual interest when introduced to a new female'.
Now you have a scientific explanation to justify your immoral behaviour!

The Coolidge effect inside you can stir you up to having affairs next to your steady girlfriend to satisfy your sexual drive, but a lot of guys in Thailand also feel somehow feel that one girlfriend doesn't really 'fill them up' for reasons discussed earlier. This has more to do with lacks on an emotional and mental level with Thai women.

One solution to that is to have something more serious with several women simultaneously. An affair could become a more long-lasting connection, or you could have two relationships at the same time. Put to the extreme, you could even be married to several Thai women!

That’s in fact not such an alien idea, Thailand has had a long history of polygamy often when a man takes one official wife and a few minor wives (mia noi). But even in very recent history and until now, if you mix well with locals you will hear many real-life stories of guys who (have been) married several wifes in different places all over Thailand at the same time.

Why you should date more than one Thai girl at the same time
Thai guy Mr. Wichai Tao marries twin sisters at the same time

In the past it was more easy for a Thai guy to get married to a woman in one village and the next day travel up to another village to get married to another woman, as the registration system of the government wasn’t very update. But even today, the systems of the government aren’t really state-of-the-art so chances are you go unnoticed when marrying two different women in different provinces. A safer bet would be if you marry to a girl in a traditional way without officially registering, then only social networks like Facebook will betray you.

Interestingly, Thai law has provisions for these apparently common cases, and stipulates that only the first wife has full rights. So there you go again: first wife and then minor wives, a clear heritage from the past.

An interesting case happened recently when a guy in Samut Songkram, Mr. Wichai Tao, married two twin girls. He said he just couldn’t make up his mind which one he liked more, both girls liked him since childhood and so they decided to get married together. The good thing about Thailand is: this is all legal!

Muslims have discovered the benefits of polygamy a long time ago and let’s admit it: there’s ancient wisdom behind it. In many islamic countries it’s legal to be married to several women at the same time, but the rules and relations amongst the women vary.

If you feel you’re not entirely satisfied with one relationship in Thailand, consider having an affair (whether agreed upon with your partner or not), and if it works out, consider having more than one relationship at the same time. For guys looking for a deeper connection, it can be a simple necessity to have two or more girls to get something near a wholesome experience in this country.

If you decide to go ahead, it’ll surely require some deep sea talking if you want to be honest or skillful secret manoeuvring if you don’t, but others have gone before you so you’re not alone in going for multiple women in your life.

Why you should date more than one Thai girl at the same time
Artist impression of what happened at the end of the wedding day


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